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First Date Lad is your guide to the weird, funny and sometimes ridiculous world of modern dating. From first-date mistakes and texting disasters to attraction, confidence and relationship advice — we’re here to make dating a little easier.

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Never Ask This Question on a First Date
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Confidence
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